If you sense that someone is not in a responsive mood, you should adopt the principle of avoidance, give him an evasive reply and then proceed with your own affairs.
This principle is very important in social life. Society is a combination of different kinds of people and the way we live our lives in society is very often determined not by our own choices but by the will of others.
If you try to convince all the members of society of your wish to prevail, you will seldom succeed, so practice the art of doing what is possible and leaving what is impossible.
This is a sign of maturity. The mature person remains even-tempered in situations which are impossible for him to change.
If it is possible to bring about a change in the situation, then try for change, but when change is not possible, simply adopt the formula of adjustment.
This is important not only in society but also in your family.
In the domestic sphere, there are always occasions when you feel that you cannot convince other family members of the rectitude of your views.
That is when you should follow this formula- Your way of thinking for you, and My way of thinking for me.
Difference.....it is a part of life.
Everyone has a different mindset..
Everyone sees things from a different angle.. Everyone has different tastes..
It is almost impossible to bring about uniformity among people. Trying to establish uniformity is like trying to make the impossible possible.
✓In such a situation, adopting the above policy ‘Live and let live’.
It simply means that you should live by your own principles and let other people live by their own principles.
This is maturity...
This is an adjustment and....
This is the positive way of life.
✓"Ignore in a polite way"means dealing in a positive manner.
If the questions put to you are of a contentious nature, respond to them in an indirect way or simply change the subject.
✓To change the subject is also a polite way of answering.
This kind of answer shows maturity and a disciplined mind.
Moreover, it is the sign of a strong personality.
✓ When you keep your patience, you are saving your time and energy.
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